Monday, June 11, 2007

11 days and counting.. and reflecting on life after baby

I have 11 more work days until I leave the work force to be a stay at home mom! I am training my replacement right now. Things seem to be going well there. She watched me do the job for two weeks and now I get to watch her do the job. I know it sounds weird but that's what the boss wants.

Balancing work, housework, and NJ has been difficult. I have been stretched in ways I never thought possible. I was used to only alloting the amount of time it took me to get ready in the morning. Now, I have to add at least a half hour for feeding NJ and dressing him. And I have to allot enough time in the morning to get the house in decent order before T comes over to watch NJ. There are mornings that I have been awake for about three hours before I even get to work. I have become even more disciplined and structured because of this. I remember going at least 4 to 5 days between running the dishwasher before NJ came. I am not proud of that. When I was working full time before NJ was born, I would leave the week days dishes in the sink until the weekend and then run the dishwasher. Now, I run the dishwasher every night so NJ has clean bottles for the next day. I also seem to do a load or two of laundry every day. I used to only do laundry one day a week. And I fit it in about 2-3 loads.

I am looking forward to a more stress-free life!

7 comments:

Dash said...

T and I are very excited for you and NJ!

Sorry that you and Dust have had your schedules messed up this week while we've been in STL.

BTW ... I will soon be living in the same zip code as T's mom. This will also mean running the dishwasher more often :-)

Parents and Babies - always making it more difficult!! :-)

shakedust said...

I hope the schedule eases up when you are staying home with NJ.

What I am looking forward to is when NJ starts eating what the rest of us are eating. The formula and baby food business is such a racket.

Dash,

Transplants don't get to be scheduled in advance. I hope your dad is doing OK.

Achtung BB said...

Congratulations on leaving the work force

roamingwriter said...

We all dream of the day of not having schedules to keep and bosses to please. I like what I do most the time but there are moments when I fantasize about being a "missionary wife" (yes that's what I am but on paper I don't HAVE to work, yet I do.)

T said...

It's like 9 days now for you! How awesome! I thought of your blog this morning when I ran my dishwasher! :)

And yes, having my mom in the same zip code makes cleaning my house a full time job or thinking up excuses for it not being clean a full time job anyway! :) LOL

Portland wawa said...

I am happy for you. Remember how much I wanted to stay home when Woogy was born? I'm over it now, but it is still the hardest thing in the world, being a full-time working mother. I am so lucky to have a husband that helps out alot and a mother-in-law who doesn't care if my house is clean.

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